St. Catharines, Ont.
The issue of same-sex blessings was like an elephant in the room at General Synod – not even the Canadian ecumenical and overseas partners of the Anglican Church of Canada who attended the gathering could ignore the issue in their reports.
“We sympathize with what you’re struggling with. As the saying goes ‘been there, done that,'” said Rev. Robert Mills of the United Church of Canada, which has supported the civil recognition of same-sex relationships and allows its clergy to bless such unions. “It’s an unavoidable struggle in today’s world.”
Mr. Mills talked about how the United Church of Canada dealt with the issue, saying “There’s a great need for patience and a willingness to listen to views different from ours, especially on sexual orientation. It has to go both ways.” He said that after a decision had been made in his church, “there was a remarkable change of attitude and acceptance that seemed impossible.”
General Synod typically invites ecumenical observers and Anglican partners from the United States and overseas to participate – without vote – in its triennial meetings.
He also said that while the ELCIC and the Anglican Church of Canada were still experiencing “some tension around the implementation of existing agreements” things for the most part have been “going well.”
Canon Stephen Lane, of the Episcopal Church of the United States of America, spoke of the effects of the ordination of a gay bishop in the diocese of New Hampshire. “I think we’re doing pretty well. It’s a time of discovery for our church,” he said. “No diocese has escaped pain.”
In an interview with Anglican Journal, Bishop Duleep de Chickera of the diocese of Colombo, Sri Lanka, said the youth made a difference when most of them stood up to voice their views on a motion regarding same-sex relationships. “There was a touch of disappointment (from an earlier defeated motion) so that made them even more determined to work for the inclusion of Clause 6” which affirmed the integrity and sanctity of same-sex relationships, he said.